Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby Rian » Wed Sep 09, 2009 6:32 pm

crazylegsmurphy wrote:It's always bothered me that God has made me responsible for the actions of someone who didn't have even close to all the information necessary to make that kind of choice.

I think there was sufficient information, and I think it was a case of "put your best batter up", and they still struck out ... and then God could get on with the cure.

I want my own Garden of Eden where I can make my own choice for my own self. Not only that, but I want God himself to sit down with me every day, and talk to me in baby talk if he has to until I fully understand what each and every consequence to my actions would be. If I were staring face to face with God, in paradise, and he was transparent and trustworthy....well, it would take a hell of a lot for me to break his laws.
This is just puzzling to me - I don't see how anyone can think this. Haven't we all done things that we KNEW were wrong?

And again, as I said in another thread, so many atheists seem to look at these things in terms of what they GET, like they need to weigh the penalty before they decide whether or not to do something that a loving creator that they knew intimately told them not to do and that they had to have known would hurt him. How can they prove their loyalty and love if there is nothing to prove it against? If I'm alone on a desert island with my husband, is it any merit to claim that I'm faithful to him?
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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby crazylegsmurphy » Wed Sep 09, 2009 6:36 pm

Rian wrote:Just a quick general observation - why are so many atheists so into what they GET, instead of the relationship?


Cause the relationship is so conditional and wavering that it feels more like a government than a friend. If I'm going to have to put so much effort just to keep that friend on my good side, then I want to know what I'll be getting in return.
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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby mikedsjr » Wed Sep 09, 2009 8:38 pm

crazylegsmurphy wrote:
Rian wrote:Just a quick general observation - why are so many atheists so into what they GET, instead of the relationship?


Cause the relationship is so conditional and wavering that it feels more like a government than a friend. If I'm going to have to put so much effort just to keep that friend on my good side, then I want to know what I'll be getting in return.


effort, conditioning, wavering will send you to hell.....thats the message of Christ. Christ died for sins of the "world". You are incapable of efforting your way to God. Its impossible. Effort will give someone hell.
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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby crazylegsmurphy » Wed Sep 09, 2009 8:57 pm

mikedsjr wrote:effort, conditioning, wavering will send you to hell.....thats the message of Christ. Christ died for sins of the "world". You are incapable of efforting your way to God. Its impossible. Effort will give someone hell.


What I meant was that God holds all the cards. He's the one with all the power. Friendship is formed when two people both put in equal effort with nothing expected in return other than friendship. I'm not friends with people because of how much money they have, or what they can do for me...that's not friendship.

I'm currently living in a house in the UK and I pay rent so I have equal say in what happens around here. In three days I'll be leaving this place to go hiking and therefore giving up my rent status. The problem is that when I come back in October I have a few weeks to go before I fly home and need a place to stay. This means that despite one of the housemates being a total dick with no consideration or forethought I am forced to "be his friend" because if I challenge him, he can refuse to give me a place to sleep.

I'm not free to voice my concerns in this house out of fear of him turning his back on me. I'm forced to be friendly to him to cover my own ass. When I read the bible, it's not about God wanting to just be my friend, it's about what God will do for me if I am. Jesus went around using magic tricks to convince people to follow him. God talks about how blessed people will be if they follow his word. The entire bible pounds into our heads the good and bad aspects of knowing God. This is not a friendship, this a poor excuse for a personals ad on a dating website.

If I ever choose to be friends with God then I would only do so once he takes away the conditions that go along with that. I don't want his unconditional love, I want his love to be a byproduct of a relationship that grows over time. I want to feel free to live my life and make my own choices without fear of my friend. Sure, I welcome his advice and sometimes I'll take it, and sometimes I won't, but I refuse to be friends with someone who says, "Be my friend...or else!"
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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby mikedsjr » Wed Sep 09, 2009 9:49 pm

crazylegsmurphy wrote:What I meant was that God holds all the cards. He's the one with all the power. Friendship is formed when two people both put in equal effort with nothing expected in return other than friendship. I'm not friends with people because of how much money they have, or what they can do for me...that's not friendship.
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If I ever choose to be friends with God then I would only do so once he takes away the conditions that go along with that. I don't want his unconditional love, I want his love to be a byproduct of a relationship that grows over time. I want to feel free to live my life and make my own choices without fear of my friend. Sure, I welcome his advice and sometimes I'll take it, and sometimes I won't, but I refuse to be friends with someone who says, "Be my friend...or else!"


It isn't about friendship.
God does hold all the cards.
It isn't up to you, me or anyone.
You can't save yourself, nor can i save myself, nor can i take the place of others if i so wished in order to have them go to heaven instead of me.
My love is a byproduct of my relationship with Him that has grown over time. But it had nothing to do with me or what i choose to do, except in faith.
I am free to make my own choices. The key is that a person doesn't choose God without God choosing the person first (John 6). And what God chooses, no man can resist (Romans 9). And those who are chosen can not help but be obedient to Christ because of God. It isn't an overnight thing, but it isn't a effort issue either. It is a sovereign God issue who through the Holy Spirit causes someone to be molded into the likeness of Christ. This is why someone who says they were in the church for a long time (even if they were committed members to their church) and left the church in there later years to never return were not true christians in the first place. You can't find that in scripture. You can only find that in people's philosophies they add to the bible. Philosophy in systematic theology don't go together, despite the efforts of some good intention minded Christians philosophers.

i'm praying for you and i will also pray for your housing situation.
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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby crazylegsmurphy » Wed Sep 09, 2009 10:08 pm

mikedsjr wrote:
It isn't about friendship.
God does hold all the cards.
It isn't up to you, me or anyone.
You can't save yourself, nor can i save myself, nor can i take the place of others if i so wished in order to have them go to heaven instead of me.
My love is a byproduct of my relationship with Him that has grown over time. But it had nothing to do with me or what i choose to do, except in faith.
I am free to make my own choices. The key is that a person doesn't choose God without God choosing the person first (John 6). And what God chooses, no man can resist (Romans 9). And those who are chosen can not help but be obedient to Christ because of God. It isn't an overnight thing, but it isn't a effort issue either. It is a sovereign God issue who through the Holy Spirit causes someone to be molded into the likeness of Christ. This is why someone who says they were in the church for a long time (even if they were committed members to their church) and left the church in there later years to never return were not true christians in the first place. You can't find that in scripture. You can only find that in people's philosophies they add to the bible. Philosophy in systematic theology don't go together, despite the efforts of some good intention minded Christians philosophers.

i'm praying for you and i will also pray for your housing situation.


I find this to be a very, very scary situation, and if I thought for a second that God was real I would feel completely helpless. I wouldn't care if God loved me or not, much like I don't care if my housemate likes me or not. All I would care about is not having to sleep on the street. Like my housemate I would tell God anything he wanted to hear in order to save my own ass.

The problem is that God knows what is in my heart. This creates a problem because I would find it impossible to truly love someone who held these kinds of rules over me. I would find it very difficult to want to get to know this person because it's all about ultimatums. How would I ever know if I was a "True Christian?" Every Christian I ever talk to seems to think they're a true Christian and everyone else isn't (maybe not that exact, but close).

I appreciate you praying for me, but I think your prayers would be much better directed at someone who needs it. I'm fully capable of taking my life into my own hands, and I realized a long time ago that praying for God to help me out wasn't going to get me anywhere, which is why I saved up enough money to stay in B&B's for weeks if I need too...I would just rather spend that money on something a little more fun, so if I have to treat my housemate like God so he feels like he's in control so I have somewhere to sleep....meh, small price to pay.
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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby marc » Thu Sep 10, 2009 4:46 am

Rian wrote:Just a quick general observation - why are so many atheists so into what they GET, instead of the relationship?

I obviously can't speak for all atheists but this one must have a different concept of a relationship than you do. Every relationship I've ever been involved with was with someone I can converse with (and have them talk back) and touch (physically as in a hug or a handshake). When god or Jesus comes to my house for a beer and a chat, I'll be able to have a relationship with him.
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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby Brad » Thu Sep 10, 2009 5:45 am

Less-literal / "liberal" believers,
Read carefully the words of mikesdjr.
Then please just tell the rest of us why you don't protest at all or at least present a contrasting view?
Because you think his view is helpful and beneficial to civilization?
Because any kind of belief is a good thing as long as it has Jesus in it somewhere?
Because it's none of your business?
Because it might make you realize or even outwardly acknowledge that the Bible has a very unfortunate ratio of wisdom to nonsense?
Why?
(Pseudonym has answered a similar question for me before. I should go back and read that again. But I have to say the unwillingness of Christians to make a public peep in response to the more extreme "interpretations" of other believers unless and until some enormous tragedy or embarrassment is all over the media never ceases to amaze me.)

Rian,
I noticed you didn't reply to my lengthy response to you in the previous thread, but the point I made there applies equally to your last query here.
Believers in sun gods going by various names around the world had "relationships" with their gods, too, and they prayed and worshiped and sacrificed young girls to keep those relationships on good terms.
Believers in the god of Abraham had worshipful relationships not only with Yahweh, but with quite a few other gods for hundreds of years before circumstances began to give rise to monotheism.
Believers in Shiva and Vishnu and the entire pantheon of Hindu gods have very sincere, devout, and loving relationships with their deities.
Believers in a divine Buddha arrange their daily lives and calendars and practices around relationships with him, too.
The people who hijacked the airplanes on 9/11/01 very seriously believed in their relationships with, and submission to, Mohammad and Allah, and believed to their cores that they were about to make those relationships far sweeter and more direct when their targets were reached. (One thing those believers had absolutely correct is that the arrangements they were making for themselves would be "everlasting.")
But while you assert that you "don't know everything," you do think that all those people, at least a billion of them altogether, are profoundly mistaken, and that their devout and sincere "relationships" with those deities are based upon false man-made notions, do you not? If so, on that you and I agree.
(By the way, however, if you'd been born in India, Thailand, or Pakistan, the probability is overwhelming that you'd be a Hindu, a Buddhist, or a Muslim, respectively, and that I would at least have started out that way, too, had I been born in one of those locations.)

Those who are (or who, like me, have been inclined to be) critical of Emery for his subtle and seemingly passive approach in the podcasts,
I commend to you a listen to the most recent "Reasonable Doubts" podcast - #51. There, the hosts discuss some psychological research relating to what happens when worldviews are directly challenged, particularly worldviews that are arranged around fixed and rigid ideas and that contain promises of some direct form of immortality. Having heard about that research, I've begun to think that the manner in which Emery conducts himself during the podcasts is at the very least a valid and useful approach, maybe uniquely so.
Obviously my own approach is more direct, but I'm really trying to learn from Emery, whose talent in allowing folk like Danny Edge and Josiah to dig their own holes, so to speak, is very great, in my opinion.
Bottom line - I think Harris and Hitchens serve reason and reality well in their way, and Emery and other quieter voices like Eugenie Scott and David Sloan Wilson serve well in their way.
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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby Brad » Thu Sep 10, 2009 1:09 pm

P.S.
Then ya got yer Mary-hailin' Catholics and their many, many, patron saints, with whom they have very real (to them) relationships.

Then ya got yer Mormons, whose relationships with God, not to mention Moroni, won't be right until the President of the United States is wearin' "The Garment", which is to say magical underwear, but they won't tell you that when they knock on your door. :shock:

That's a lot of relationships!
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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby Angela » Thu Sep 10, 2009 2:25 pm

Brad wrote:
Those who are (or who, like me, have been inclined to be) critical of Emery for his subtle and seemingly passive approach in the podcasts,
I commend to you a listen to the most recent "Reasonable Doubts" podcast - #51. There, the hosts discuss some psychological research relating to what happens when worldviews are directly challenged, particularly worldviews that are arranged around fixed and rigid ideas and that contain promises of some direct form of immortality. Having heard about that research, I've begun to think that the manner in which Emery conducts himself during the podcasts is at the very least a valid and useful approach, maybe uniquely so.
Obviously my own approach is more direct, but I'm really trying to learn from Emery, whose talent in allowing folk like Danny Edge and Josiah to dig their own holes, so to speak, is very great, in my opinion.
Bottom line - I think Harris and Hitchens serve reason and reality well in their way, and Emery and other quieter voices like Eugenie Scott and David Sloan Wilson serve well in their way.



My first post! Hi everyone. Love the show, and just want to second the kudos to Emery for his patient, thoughtful style of leading the debate/discussion. The level of respect Emery shows for his Christian co-hosts, and that they show him in return, is a rare gem among the huge pile of rocks atheists and Christians are in the habit of throwing at each other. I don't get the sense that he really wants anyone "digging their own holes," but rather that he is genuinely interested in what they think and why. It's not about winning and losing, but about people gaining a better understanding of each other and themselves, and perhaps, somewhere in there, a little more insight into the nature of the universe. Great job guys, keep it up. (Heading off to find the Reasonable Doubts podcast.)
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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby Brad » Thu Sep 10, 2009 3:09 pm

Angela wrote:My first post! ... I don't get the sense that he really wants anyone "digging their own holes," but rather that he is genuinely interested in what they think and why.


Hi Angela,
I guess as a relative newcomer but frequent scribbler here it's OK for me to welcome you, so WELCOME! :D

I'm sure you're quite right about Emery's motivation, and my phrase, "digging their own holes" was inarticulate and misleading.
I think what Emery does by encouraging believers in literal Bible interpretations to discuss their beliefs is to make them and similar listeners think more fully about the ideas and concepts they claim to be historically and factually true.
And I think he does pretty well with slippery sometimes non-literal believers like that feller Scott, too!
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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby marc » Thu Sep 10, 2009 4:22 pm

Angela wrote:My first post! Hi everyone. Love the show, and just want to second the kudos to Emery for his patient, thoughtful style of leading the debate/discussion. The level of respect Emery shows for his Christian co-hosts, and that they show him in return, is a rare gem among the huge pile of rocks atheists and Christians are in the habit of throwing at each other. I don't get the sense that he really wants anyone "digging their own holes," but rather that he is genuinely interested in what they think and why. It's not about winning and losing, but about people gaining a better understanding of each other and themselves, and perhaps, somewhere in there, a little more insight into the nature of the universe. Great job guys, keep it up. (Heading off to find the Reasonable Doubts podcast.)

Hi Angela,

Welcome to the board!!

If you're looking for more atheistic leaning podcasts, check out this thread Brad started a few days ago. Be warned though, not all of them are as respectful as C&A and there may be some language some people would find offensive. Which reminds me, there's yet another good one I forgot to list there, going to do so right now.
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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby Rian » Thu Sep 10, 2009 7:23 pm

Brad wrote:Rian,
I noticed you didn't reply to my lengthy response to you in the previous thread ...

Well, just keep in mind the nature of these boards - it's kind of a hit-and-miss, and there's a lot more atheists here than Christians, so we can get snowed under. I don't accuse people of not responding to a post of mine unless I've asked and asked and reminded and reminded over and over. There's just no way to keep up with everyone's posts.

Some posts I can respond to right away, if things are clear and I have time, and others I have to put off, either for lack of time or because the post has issues that will take some time and thought to deal with. Your response post to me fell into this latter category, and even this afternoon I was telling myself, "Now where was that post from Brad? I gotta do a search and respond to it". Anyway, I'll go there now and respond.
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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby Pseudonym » Thu Sep 10, 2009 9:42 pm

Brad wrote:Then please just tell the rest of us why you don't protest at all or at least present a contrasting view?

Because anyone who's been on this forum long enough knows that we've been over this many times before.

Having said that...
Brad wrote:There, the hosts discuss some psychological research relating to what happens when worldviews are directly challenged, particularly worldviews that are arranged around fixed and rigid ideas and that contain promises of some direct form of immortality. Having heard about that research, I've begun to think that the manner in which Emery conducts himself during the podcasts is at the very least a valid and useful approach, maybe uniquely so.

Isn't that also a good reason?
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Re: Ep. 68: Back to the Garden part 2

Postby Angela » Fri Sep 11, 2009 5:58 am

Thanks marc and Brad for the welcome. I enjoyed the Reasonable Doubts "Don't Fear the Reaper" podcast. It's helpful to be aware of our human psychology and how it affects what we tend to believe. Note that no one is immune; liberals, conservatives, Christians, atheists--no matter how rational we try to make our decision processes, our thoughts and choices are affected by subconscious drives. We are quick to see this in others but less so in ourselves. Christians often think that atheists don't believe in God because "deep down" they don't WANT to believe for various subconscious reasons, and all the logic and science is just a protective veneer. Similarly, atheists often think that Christians hang onto their belief in the face of contrary information because they have a subconscious need to keep believing. This would be a great basis for a C&A podcast, I think.

I came a cross a fascinating recent study examining cognitive dissonance, motivated reasoning, and the belief in a link between Sadaam Hussein and the 9/11 attacks:
http://sociology.buffalo.edu/documents/ ... le_000.pdf
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