Are you asking me why I'm feeling that way? I don't know. And that's the central of my struggle. But I sense the tone of your question that you do not feel that sex changes your perception to any relationship (hetero or homo). In your world, do you not think that sex can change your friendship? Or is it 'common' to have sex with any of your friends as long as no one is forced? It will leads me to think that you would be acceptable to orgy as well, as long as everyone is willing.
First of all, an orgy would be fun to try without a doubt.
Of course sex can change a relationship, but just because it changes doesn't mean it's bad or good. Two men who love each other and choose to have sex is no more right or wrong than two straight couples, or a brother and sister, or whatever as long as they are consenting adults that are not making the choice based on any manipulation or force. I personally don't give a crap who people have sex with as long as everyone is on the same page.
Yes, I have had "friends with benefits" in the past because there were times when I just wanted to get off without the relationship. My adult friend was in the same position and that lasted until we decided we wanted something else, no harm, no foul.
1. Does your view on what's negative (edit)based on the majority population view?
Yes, at times I am influenced by the general population, but I strive to make up my own mind based on the information I gather.
2. I'm not sure why you're not following my thought. I believe anyone's (or majority of people's) view toward relationship changes when sex is involved. So I believe there is a different of loving my male friend (I'm male btw) and loving him so much that I want to express it with sex. There is a different between loving your mom and loving her so much that you want to have sex with her. The analogy between mayo in burger and rainbow doesn't fit here.
Yes, you're right...you're not getting any argument from me...but I think you still have to answer the question why does sex suddenly make it uncomfortable or "wrong?" It's like you're saying two gay men can sit across from each other while watching "Will and Grace" and stare into each others eyes, but the second they touch each other sexually then the world has gone crazy. What about sex changes it from "meh" to "Wrong?"
You seems to be saying that incest is 'negative' because majority of people think so. However, you also feel that it is ok as long as the two people are willing to do so. Now I'm confused..
Yes, I am saying exactly that. Most people are too narrow minded to even consider it past the stereotypical version of incest. I personally feel it's fine as long as two people consent to it and no one is getting hurt.