TheFonz wrote:Question: If kindness and goodness are characteristic of some people (like your friend from choir), and not a characteristic of others, where does the characteristic of goodness come from? Moreover, why do some people lack that characteristic?
A word of warning (about my personal pet peeve):
Avoid "reifying a process." Although not unique in this, Christian theology commits this philosophical error repeatedly. "Reifying" is discussing something that is
NOT a thing as if it were a thing. Therefore, "goodness" and "kindness" do not exist on their own, and they cannot "come from" somewhere the way an oak rises from an acorn. Instead the words "goodness" & "kindness" describe processes of interaction, and that process includes our own interpretation.
And to directly answer your question, all personality patterns arise as a result of genetic inheritance, learning, and the ongoing feedback loop that results from living in a dynamic system. People don't "lack a characteristic" so much as it they may not have learned it, inherited the tendency toward it, or had the reinforcement for showing such a personality pattern.
TheFonz wrote:You claim that that involving a deity in interpersonal relationships damages them (or at least "muddles" them).
I said MUDDIES, not MUDDLES. (The font on this page is not always our friend. Increase the size if you have similar misunderstandings.)
TheFonz wrote:I would say that a Christian who lives out what he believes has better interpersonal relationships due to his Christ centered world view. The problem, of course, is Christians. We are all imperfect and have imperfect relationships. However, we have a "base" or a staring point of Christ. We have the gold standard on how we should act.
Do you see the inconsistency that you've boxed yourself into?
To paraphrase, a Christian who lives out his/her beliefs has better interpersonal relationships. But they don't, because we're imperfect.
In other words, the evidence for your premise amounts to zero. It's a theoretical guess, at best. But you can't even test the hypothesis because it's impossible. You say it's impossible because Christians are imperfect. I say it's impossible because it's all based on a fantasy.
And honestly, I think you hear certain things from the pulpit that sound like the match today's life, but there's lots of Jesus' teachings that are just kooky:
- Would you sell all you had to run off and preach?
- Does it make sense to put up with needless suffering here in hopes of an afterlife?
- Do you really think being angry and committing murder are morally equivalent?
- Are people who divorce & remarry committing adultery?
- If someone sued you for $10,000, would you give him your house, too?
- Would you recommend to your children that they make no plans for the future because God will provide?
(And that's just from my quick re-read of the Sermon on the Mount, Matthew 5-7.)
TheFonz wrote:Where is the standard for the Atheist? (kind f off thread topic, I know)
Non-theists focus on the things they value,
just like Christians do. We live in society, and most of us who think about it want that society to run as freely and efficiently as possible. But the characteristics of a culture are also fluid and based on feedback loops, so things evolve over time. It's my experience that Christians dislike that kind of evolution as much as they dislike natural selection.