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Aaron wrote:Jesus did not go around speaking out against all the prostitues and other lowly sinners of his day, why aren't you following his example? I keep hearing this. It seems I should be tolerant just like Jesus was. I have to disagree with this 100 percent. Yes Jesus would mingle with people such as those but they knew, everyone knew, what they were doing was wrong. He was showing all that his gift was not just for the "religious" it was for everyone. His goal was never to make thier sin seem less like sin, it was to reveal it completely for what it was and then offer the incredible gift of forgiveness. Still not convinced? Take a look at Jesus' reaction in the temple. He knew what they were doing was wrong, but they thought it was okay. Notice he didn't show them the same comforting shoulder he showed all those horrible sinners. He made it very clear that what they were doing was wrong, he left no room for uncertainty. I think Jesus would do the same in our generation. It always seems that Jesus stands for the exact opposite of what the world stands for. Yeah I think he would be at the forefront making sure people understood homosexuality was wrong, along with adultery, stealing music, not lying, not putting people ahead of material things, porn and many other things. Yet I suspect he would be the first to forgive a terrorist, a rapist, a child molester or a wife beater.



Aaron wrote:I don't want to force a person to do or believe anything. I do however want to make it very clear that I think certain things are wrong. I don't want the everybody is right in thier own way view forced on me. My intent is not to force change but I wonder how can I expect people to change if I never let them know something is wrong? I think there is a difference between being forceful and repectfully spreading my faith.

Aaron wrote:I don't want to force a person to do or believe anything. I do however want to make it very clear that I think certain things are wrong. I don't want the everybody is right in thier own way view forced on me. My intent is not to force change but I wonder how can I expect people to change if I never let them know something is wrong? I think there is a difference between being forceful and repectfully spreading my faith.

Aaron wrote:Take a look at Jesus' reaction in the temple. He knew what they were doing was wrong, but they thought it was okay. Notice he didn't show them the same comforting shoulder he showed all those horrible sinners. He made it very clear that what they were doing was wrong, he left no room for uncertainty.




OzAnt wrote:Hi Aaron,
Asking homosexual people to be straight is exactly the same as asking heterosexual people to be gay. In other words, it's not going to happen. We are born how we are born. Just imagine for a moment how you'd feel if you were told that your heterosexual feelings were wrong and that you should, if you want to enter the kingdom of God, marry another man. Could you do it and mean it? Your honest answer would have to be no. Well, that's exactly what you're asking a gay man to do when you tell him he should marry a woman. It wouldn't be real, it wouldn't be love and it wouldn't be fair on the gay man or the straight woman. It's that simple.
If Jesus really was God in the flesh, he'd know this and as such would not demand the impossible.
Ant

I just don't see it that way. When approximately 10% of the animal kingdom turns out gay (of what we've studied closely of it so far), it's really hard to argue that nurture has a hand in the matter. When you see a gay person (a good friend of my sister's, as it turns out) go through 10 years of trying to be straight - which included marrying a woman and having two children with her - and then deciding it was too difficult to live the lie, I don't see nurture at work. All I see is a bunch of hurt people and children.Mr. Sluagh wrote:No, I'm sorry, nature vs. nurture is a red herring in the homosexuality debate.
Huh?!? Original sin means that we got to know good and evil. If homosexuality is genetic (as I'm 99% convinced it is), how on earth can this then be a good and evil thing? I mean, it would be just as wrong to a gay bloke for him to marry a woman as it would for a straight bloke for him to marry a man.Mr. Sluagh wrote:On the one hand, if it is genetic, Christians can just chalk it up to original sin.
I agree with the care factor, but at the same time note that the implication here is that gay men, for instance, could marry [straight] women and experience equally loving and fulfilling relationships as if they married other gay men. I challenge you to find a gay [non Christian*] person to tell you this would be the case.Mr. Sluagh wrote:If it isn't, no reasonable person should care any more than they should care if someone likes redheads.

OzAnt wrote:Hi Mr Sluagh,I just don't see it that way. When approximately 10% of the animal kingdom turns out gay (of what we've studied closely of it so far), it's really hard to argue that nurture has a hand in the matter. When you see a gay person (a good friend of my sister's, as it turns out) go through 10 years of trying to be straight - which included marrying a woman and having two children with her - and then deciding it was too difficult to live the lie, I don't see nurture at work. All I see is a bunch of hurt people and children.Mr. Sluagh wrote:No, I'm sorry, nature vs. nurture is a red herring in the homosexuality debate.
Huh?!? Original sin means that we got to know good and evil. If homosexuality is genetic (as I'm 99% convinced it is), how on earth can this then be a good and evil thing? I mean, it would be just as wrong to a gay bloke for him to marry a woman as it would for a straight bloke for him to marry a man.[/quote]Mr. Sluagh wrote:On the one hand, if it is genetic, Christians can just chalk it up to original sin.
I agree with the care factor, but at the same time note that the implication here is that gay men, for instance, could marry [straight] women and experience equally loving and fulfilling relationships as if they married other gay men. I challenge you to find a gay [non Christian*] person to tell you this would be the case.Mr. Sluagh wrote:If it isn't, no reasonable person should care any more than they should care if someone likes redheads.

Mmm, but think about this:Mr. Sluagh wrote:Animals do a lot of unsavoury things. That in itself is a very poor argument for homosexuality.
Homosexual Activity Among Animals Stirs Debate wrote:So how far can we go in using animals to help us understand human homosexuality? Robin Dunbar is a professor of evolutionary psychology at the University of Liverpool, England. "The bottom line is that anything that happens in other primates, and particularly other apes, is likely to have strong evolutionary continuity with what happens in humans," he said.
Yeah... I know. Can't argue with you there. However, I was giving examples of what sort of things I've experienced/witnessed in life that cause me to think that homosexuality is hard-wired.Mr. Sluagh wrote:And I don't see why the struggles of people like your friend should bother Christians. One of the cornerstones of their psychodrama seems to be about extreme, almost ascetic struggles against natural urges.
My take on this is a little different. As I see it, it's still not 100% clear what ratio of nature vs nurture drives people to alcoholism. People don't generally have a predisposition to alcohol, they have a predisposition to escaping reality. Alcohol is just the most common and likely vehicle for such escapism; primarily because it's legal. And when I say predisposition, I mean it's still not entirely clear what causes some people to want to escape reality more than others.Mr. Sluagh wrote:I've heard Christians use original sin to explain other sins for which some people may have physiological predispositions, like alcoholism and anger management. You can call it heresy if you want, but I still suspect that if scientists find irrefutable evidence that homosexuality is genetic (or otherwise physiologically hard-wired) that kind of rhetoric will just get more common.
Well, I think I can put up a much better argument for Christians to leave gay folk alone if it can be demonstrated it's genetic (or hard-wired) simply because, to me at least, it becomes obvious that the fruit of the tree of good and evil was faulty. It made my conscience think that sleeping with another male is wrong whilst making a gay male's conscience think that sleeping with a woman is wrong.Mr. Sluagh wrote:Yes, there are strong cases to be made that homosexuality is hard-wired. I just don't understand their centrality in the debate.

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