Exrev wrote:
Then they aren't in a place to where they will listen at all. Then it is pointless to argue with them. However, I know from my experience that evolution, contradictions in the bible and the illogical nature of the belief system was exactly what I discovered that cause me to leave the faith.
Yes, and I think it's because the natural world is ENOUGH for you (as it is for me). You have no emotional appeal to explain further the things that happen around you. Death is death (as an example). You have no NEED to reason it further. You accept it for what it is. Would you say leaving the faith maybe had a little to do with not
needing it any more? Was it entirely about reason and logic? I wouldn't believe you if you said, "yes" lol

Labrat wrote:I think the belief that God exists isn't based on any sort of evidence (or lack of...as we know). It is instead based on a believer's PERSONAL desire for it.
Exrev wrote:I disagree. People will believe things for many reasons. Whether they want to or not is not i doubt is a major reason. How many people want to believe they will burn in hell? Probably not too many.
I think you miss the point of the whole "hell thing". When hell is brought up it's done so in a manner that exemplifies the believer and demoralizes you. Its a power play. When someone plays the, "you're going to burn in hell" card, they are simply saying that they have a leg up on you. THEY know God. THEY are going to be ok. THEY have the advantage of belief. YOU'RE up shit's creek. It's just as much an emotional appeal as the NEED to believe in the first place. But hell is the BEST emotional appeal. How many people want to believe in Hell? How about all those who think they aren't going but you are? By the way, the answer to that question is, "all of them". The hell argument is PACKED with emotional appeal. It carries with it the relief that they will be ok and the authority to judge you. Speaking for God is the ultimate authority is it not? What a rush that must be for them.
labrat wrote: Rather then argue contradictions in the bible, delve deeper into the need or the void they may feel/have.
If the belief in God is based on emotional appeal...GO FOR THE EMOTIONAL APPEAL. It's the ONLY thing that will ever convince them. It's what convinced them to believe in God in the first place!
Exrev wrote:Then we become just like them! Yes we can make an emotional appeal, but they will see through it. I disagree that it was just emotional appeal that convinced them to believe... there are many other reasons why people believe. I think you'll lose the emotional appeal. What could work is pointing those contradictions in the bible and good solid reasoning skills .. It may not work immediately. It could take years...but you'd be surprised how long a single conversation about these things will influence a person. The goal is not for US to change their minds the goal is for them to think outside their mental box. Get them to question things. Our goal shouldn't even be that they agree with us...but if we can get them to think critically then we've done good.
Many other reasons why people believe? Like what? Name one. Logic? Reason? Evidence? There is NOTHING outside of emotional appeal that makes a believer. Belief in God (or any god) is a psychological disorder. Really. Or do you really think they may "have something there"? If a man thinks he's Jesus Christ and jumps off of a building are you going to
reason with him? I'm guessing not. These people are the same (though not so extreme...most). They are INSANE to a lesser extent. Honestly, I have a hard time believing most of the believers. I think many go through the motions to appease a loved one or because it's majority rules and they dont want to put ripples in the water...but im not talking about them. I'm talking about the real believers. Those emotionally attached to the belief.
For me the discussion is intended to decipher the "posers" from the true believers. If ive uncovered a "poser" then yes...logic, reason and evidence might work. But the clinically fuckin insane ones actually BELIEVE they are speaking to some super being in the sky?
Emotional appeal. And you're right, it's MUCH harder to break that wall down. I say damn near impossible.